In death
I learn of my father’s life

apparently a generous man
personable, sharing, reliable, a trusted friend 

naive to human machinations, a happy and ever optimistic giver
he laughed in company with good humour and genuine pleasure  

he aspired to making life better for people 
when he met with individuals they felt his sincere interest and care
when they needed him he was always there

he encouraged others to act on their talent and supported them in becoming their very best 
he encouraged them to think clearly be confident in their every quest

and so I now know my father better
alas, only in illness and death did we finally come together