
I meet her every Sunday morning
we have two cups of tea
I haven’t been sure why I go
but she seems to like to see me
I guess it’s because she’s lonely
and I’m the only one left around
with any sort of connection to her
for her it’s a pretty empty town
she always puts a face on
and she has two types of tea
would I prefer black or green?
a nice gesture
but it’s all the same to me
maybe a couple of biscuits?
shortbreads or Chocolate Royals
artfully presented on a floral plate
immediately after the kettle has boiled
we start with a chat about the weather
during the previous week
we could talk about it forever
but actually that’s not why we meet
she was ninety last December
you wouldn’t know it though
all her friends and rellies dead and gone
I guess that makes my visits a special sort of show
me, her brother’s son’s son
I didn’t even know we were related
until she called me on the phone
she said she had something to give me
since her nephew was now also gone
I was hesitant, but I went around
choosing right from wrong
and we seemed to settle into a pattern
after great great grandad’s medals she passed on
it’s interesting I guess hearing about her life
and she asks about mine too
I think she wants to check
I’m not in any strife
she was in a war too you know
New Guinea
at the bottom of the Kokoda Trail
a young nurse waiting for injured soldiers
she has lots of horror stories to tell
and many that make me smile
one day she let on one of those soldiers was her dear oldest brother
he didn’t make it to the hospital tent
she told me he was dead by the time they got him down
she says the world lost a rascal and a gent
he’d been stabbed in the stomach and hit by a round
the Japanese bayonet wound went septic
they gave her a morning off to grieve and to see his body sent
she became a union activist after the war was over
the women had been doing the “men’s” work
but when the men returned working women were just seen as a bother
she saw her job as helping women stand up for what was right
she really was a pioneer, one with great foresight
however, she was largely a teacup without a storm
still she spoke out and fronted for the fight
even though inequality again became the norm
she says the women had proved their worth
yet society again reverted to the patriarchal curse
nonetheless she says she has never been bitter
just encouraged to try harder for more jobs and equal pay
sad she says though
that equal pay for women is still not a reality today
she has outlived her husband and three children now
sometimes she talks about them sadly
then she always perks up when she asks
if she can recount their quirks and talents
so I learn ever more about them quite gladly
my parents are divorced and always hostile and angry
consequently I don’t want to see them much
however I do sometimes wonder if they ever talk about me
with such a loving parental touch?
I tell her about my partner and my favourite things in life
she listens intently to my prattling and often offers up good advice
come to think of it I kind of like it
this tea for two with my great aunt
in fact I can’t think of a better way to spend a Sunday morning
if I’m honest I really can’t.
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To me, the relationship you two share is evidence of the benevolence of the divine. Sean, I’m glad you wrote about it and shared it with us. I wonder if she would like to hear it or read it?
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This poem is actually an amalgam comprised of my son’s visits and phone calls to his maternal grandmother as she got older, my wife and her sister’s loving and gentle caring for their mother as she aged and became more dependent over the years right up to her death (we had a wonderful final celebration of her life today) and my paternal grandfather’s breakout regular visiting of a great aunt when he realised there was no one left for her. I wanted to tell these stories in honour of these four, my much loved mother in law and all the those devoted to the care of others.
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Sean, you do a wonderful job of honoring them in your poem. It’s a beauty.
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Thank you Li. I am very glad you liked it.
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Very nice. As a child and young adult I had a great aunt who befriended me most summers with her visits
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I am glad to learn you had such an experience. This poem is a collage of stories about devoted carers I am proud to have within my family. The world needs more of their kind.
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HI Sean, I really like this loving poem. I try to spend time with the elderly members of my family too.
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That’s great Robbie. This is a tribute poem to the members of my family who like you are unselfishly devoted to caring for our elders. So, I give you an honourable thank you as well.
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🙏💖
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